Among other topics, I had an interesting conversation with one of my oldest friend this past weekend about why and how easy it is to find a woman in church.

Look at the divorce rate in South Africa, better yet look at the relationships of some of the people you know and the struggles they have and how most of them cant maintain nor sustain their relationships. The ideology and notion of what a church is supposed to stand for has changed dramatically, thus you find most guys refusing to entertain the idea of even going to church.

Don’t get me wrong, the existence of church is still valid but lets be honest we are beings that get easily and vulnerably distracted more so in place such as a church.

Why I think church girls are easy?

Even thou the notion of church isn’t what it used to be, the mere idea of dating a church going guy has a nice ring to it.

Imagine introducing your man to your friends and stating that you met at church, according to my friend this is one of the reasons why church girls are easy because they are afraid of the judgement they will get from their friends and family if the boyfriend is not a church going man. if you look at the rate of couples who go to church together, to couples that do not go to church or go to different church you will see that the couples that go to church together tend to have long-lasting relations in comparison to the other couples.

“I found Mines in church, where did you find yours?”

There is also this perception that church going men are well disciplined and they have some understanding about their future, and according to my friend this is one of the things that make them attractable and increases their chances of dating.

“What oftentimes draws the good church girl to the bad boy is the bad in the good church girl, which the Bible calls the flesh.” ―Daniel Whyte

Another reason why church girls are easy my friend says. Just like guys women want to experience things and when they are with their friends they talk and they want to be the one telling stories about how good or bad their boyfriend is. The pressure from their friends is too much to deal with according to my friend. And church girls are the most naughtiest and sexually frustrated individuals you will ever meet and this makes them easy targets.